Life doesn’t always need a complete overhaul. Sometimes you just need to cut through the bullshit, figure out what the hell isn’t working, what you actually want, and what you’re going to do about it. RUCKUS is practical, straight-up life coaching for adults dealing with change, relationships, boundaries, career shifts, or that frustrating feeling of being stuck and not knowing what the fuck comes next.
You don’t need to have your whole life mapped out before you start moving. We’ll sort through the noise, call out the patterns that keep getting in your way, and figure out what actually makes sense for you. No motivational fluff, no pretending everything happens for a reason - just honest conversations, useful perspective, and a next move you can actually make.
LIFE IS A MOSH PIT
From outside a mosh pit, it looks like complete fucking chaos. People crashing into each other. Getting shoved around. Noise everywhere. Every now and then, somebody catches an elbow they didn’t see coming. But anyone who’s spent time in a good pit knows there’s more to it than that. There’s an unwritten code: participate, pay attention, hold your ground when you need to, make room when someone needs it, and when somebody falls, you pick them back up. Life isn’t all that different.
You can’t control everything around you. You can’t predict every hit, every change, or where you’re going to land. Sometimes you lose your footing. Sometimes you need help getting back up. Sometimes growth means setting a boundary without hating the person on the other side of it. Sometimes it means having the conversation you’ve been avoiding, changing careers, starting over, or admitting what used to work just doesn’t anymore. Coaching isn’t about eliminating uncertainty. It’s about figuring out how you want to move through it. You can spend your whole life standing against the wall, studying the pit and waiting until you’re sure you’re ready...
Or you can get in.
Free 15-Minute Consultation
A quick, no-pressure conversation to see if RUCKUS feels like the right fit.
30-Minute Coaching Session — $45
Focused support for a specific issue, decision, conversation, or goal.
60-Minute Coaching Session — $80
A full coaching session with more time to dig into what’s going on, identify patterns, and build practical next steps.
Relationship Coaching 60 min — $100
For couples or partners who want help with communication, boundaries, recurring conflict, or working through a specific issue together.
Packages
3 × 60-Minute Sessions — $225
6 × 60-Minute Sessions — $420
No contracts. No bullshit. Just practical coaching built around what you actually need.
I’ve reinvented myself more than once, and that’s a big part of who I am.
I’ve spent nearly 30 years moving through creative work, technology, training, retail, the cannabis industry, and corporate environments. I’m curious by nature, quick to notice patterns, and I’ve always been the person people come to when they need to talk something through, solve a problem, or figure out what the hell comes next.
I care a lot about honesty, communication, boundaries, and treating people with dignity. I’m not interested in pretending life is simple or handing out generic motivational advice. I like getting underneath the surface, understanding what’s actually going on, and helping people make sense of the mess.
RUCKUS grew out of that. It’s a natural extension of how I’ve always worked with people: direct, practical, curious, and focused on helping them move forward in a way that actually fits who they are.
Talking to him is effortless because he genuinely listens, meets you right where you are, and brings both warmth and grounded perspective to any conversation. Whenever you need support or a new way to look at a situation, he naturally shows up with humor, curiosity, and insightful advice. You always leave a conversation with Kelly feeling lighter, inspired, and truly heard.
- Claire Gonzalez
He listens carefully, asks questions when he needs clarity, and has a real gift for noticing patterns and offering a perspective I may not have considered. He is kind, hilarious, and direct in a way that makes difficult conversations feel easier—he validates where you have been while encouraging you not to let the past keep you stuck. I’ve watched him grow into an even more thoughtful and grounded person over the years, and I believe he would be great at helping people think clearly and move forward.
- Leon Palmer Krooss
I appreciate how Kelly helps me see things from a new angle without ever making me feel wrong for where I’m starting. His approach is relatable, supportive, and genuinely helpful.
- Zack Hansen